To complain is to externalise private discomfort; to impose one’s own suffering on others with the implicit expectation that they should somehow share the burden. All complaint is thus demand.
But by what right has a man to make such demands upon others, however obscured those demands may be? The most basic prerequisite is surely that he has himself made at least a reasonable effort at alleviating his own suffering! If he has not, he demands of others that which he does not demand of himself, making him not only a hypocrite but a parasite; and, in tacitly agreeing to a situation through his inaction, a passive accomplice to the very circumstance he complains of!
If the individual is not willing to unburden himself he must be left to bear that burden’s full weight, not as punishment but as an enforcement of consequence. A single life is a series of problems to be overcome. Man is no more than a child until he assumes responsibility and learns to solve them for himself.